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Hold Me Tight Couple Relationship Education and Enhancement Program

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Hold Me Tight Couples Course Details

Hold Me Tight Couples Workshops

Hold Me Tight® is an educational program based on the theory and practice of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT). Created on the foundations of studies of adult attachment theory, EFT is an empirically tested model of couples therapy that has shown excellent, lasting outcomes with many different kinds of couples. Over the last two decades, EFT has developed as a systematic and powerfully effective approach to reducing relationship distress and helping couples to create trust and intimacy. The ultimate goal of EFT is to enable partners to not only reduce conflict and distance but to shape their relationship into a more loving secure bond.  

EFT has also shown positive results with couples who are dealing with particularly difficult problems (e.g., where partners are trauma survivors, are caring for a chronically ill child, or are struggling with depression as well as relationship distress). Over the course of this program, you will learn about the new science of love. Each session will focus on helping you and your partner use the seven conversations laid out in the Hold Me Tight® book.

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To inquire more and be notified when course date opens, please email therapy@gracehealthcentre.ca with subject line: Interested in HMT Couples Course.

Program Schedule:

    • This program will be held online as 5 three-hour modules (Part 1).
      • DATEDATES: New Course opens FALL 2022 
      • timeTIME: To be determined

Program Format:

    • In the first session, the facilitator teaches the core concepts of attachment and invites discussion. In the following sessions, each conversation outlined in Hold Me Tight® is first presented by the facilitator who offers a framework of key points for the conversation, invites discussion, and then introduces examples of the conversation from the DVD. The facilitator then invites further discussion based on the DVD excerpts and introduces in-class exercises. Couples are invited to share their experience of the exercises and given homework. At the beginning of the next session, couples are asked to comment on their experience of doing the homework.
    • LANGUAGES: Cantonese
      (English and Mandarin groups will be offered at later dates according to need and demand)

What You Will Learn in the Program:

Part 1:

    1. Understanding Love and Attachment 
    2. How Love Goes Wrong – The Demon Dialogues
    3. Finding the Raw Spots in The Demon Dialogues
    4. Fixing Mistakes and Creating a Secure Base: Revisiting a Rocky Moment
    5. Becoming Open and Responsive: The Hold Me Tight® Conversation 

 

Part 2: (usually scheduled 3-6 months after part 1)

    1. Becoming Open and Responsive: The Hold Me Tight® Conversation 
    2. Forgiving Injuries and Trusting Again
    3. Tender Touch and Synchrony Sex 
    4. Keeping Your Love Alive & Caring for Your Relationship

Testimonials: (in Cantonese)

Program Delivery:

    • The program will be held on Ontario Telehealth Network, a secure platform provided by the Ontario Government for physicians to meet with patients and Zoom during the presentations, videos and small group breakout time. Links will be sent to participants prior to each meeting.

Course Fees:

You may come as an individual, but we highly encourage your partner to join. Pricing for individuals is the same as for a couple.

    1. Course Material Fees: 
      All participants are required to purchase copyrighted course material and resources.
      • Standard Rate: $300.00 plus HST = $339.00 CAD 
      • Early Bird Rate: $250.00 plus HST = $282.50 CAD 
      • Full Time Student/Retired 55+ Rate: $200.00 plus HST = $226.00 CAD
    2. Clinical Service Fees:
      Clinical service fees are covered by OHIP if the facilitator is an Ontario physician for Ontario residents who complete the program.
      • Non-OHIP Registration Program Fee (Applies to all rate types)
        • $700.00 plus HST = $791.00 CAD

Meet Your Doctor:

Dr. Tat-Ying Wong is a General Practitioner that graduated with his Doctorate in Medicine from the University of Toronto and has extensive experience and training in marital, family, and sexual therapy. Dr. Wong is also the only Cantonese speaking certified EFT International Trainer,  training thousands of social workers, counsellors, couple and family therapists, clergy, psychologists, physicians and nurses in Asia and North America. His special interests include premarital counselling, couples therapy, emotional disorders, trauma, neurodiversity, families in ministry, cultural contextualization of family therapy to Chinese families, family therapy related to medical problems and training and supervision of lay and professional helpers. Dr. Wong is involved in psychoeducation and regularly leads groups for individuals on self esteem, managing emotions, Hold Me Tight® and Created for Connection groups for couples, Hold Me Tight Let Me Go groups for families with adolescents, and other  couple and parent training and support groups. Dr. Wong published the first and only EFT outcome study with Chinese couples based on Hold Me Tight and Created for Connection, showing couples improved their attachment security, dyadic adjustment and family functioning after the program.

Languages Spoken: English, Cantonese, Mandarin

PROGRAM APPLICATION

Program Participation Agreement Form
  1. This is an educational program that does not replace the need for professional help and medications. Participants need to continue their current treatment during the course.  Even though the facilitators are trained and licensed mental health professionals, they are not acting as an individual therapist in their role as course facilitator.  The course materials are presented from a scientific perspective.  
  2. Participants need to be stable, able to commit the time required, concentrate, absorb the key concepts, complete the basic exercises, and not be at risk to themselves or others so that a safe and productive learning environment can be maintained. The facilitators will ask participants who need additional help to consult their helping professionals. Participants who are not suitable for the course will be provided with a refund less administrative charge of $20. 
  3. Most participants will benefit from listening to the course content several times to improve comprehension and retention. 
  4. Attendance of all the online sessions, engaging with the audio-visual and written course material for each session, and participation in the in class discussions, sharing, self-reflection and skill building exercises are required for maximum benefit and growth. 
  5. For optimal learning, participants are encouraged to review each lesson. 
  6. Participants will keep the personal sharing and discussion confidential to protect each other’s privacy. 
  7. Participants who are absent for emergencies, illness and other reasons beyond their control are expected to notify the facilitator as soon as possible and complete the work for the session that they have missed to the best of their ability. 
  8. I acknowledge that my personal and relational growth is my own responsibility and am willing to take this responsibility by facing myself, engaging and renewing my way of thinking, beliefs, attitudes, values, behaviour and experience without avoiding/blaming myself or others. I understand that I am fully and solely responsible for the results and decisions that I make regarding my use of this course. I release the facilitator, the program developer, and all related institutions and organizations from any and all liability and accept full responsibility for my involvement in this course and the use of any related materials. 
  9. Participants can support each other through mutual acceptance, understanding, validation, empathy and encouragement. 
  10. Participants are also required to complete self-assessments before and after the course to gauge their progress and encourage self-awareness and self-reflection, which is the first step in personal and relational growth. 
  11. In emergency situations or times when the participant is at imminent risk of hurting him/herself or others, then he or she needs to go to the closest emergency department or call 911 for immediate assistance. 
  12. Participants may be involved in photographs, testimonies, and the production of short audio-visual clips for the purpose of promotion and helping other course participants.
  13. Participants understand the Risks of using electronic communication and that Grace Health Centre (GHC) Team will use reasonable means to protect the security and confidentiality of information sent and received using email and/or text messages. However, because of the risks outlined below, the GHC Team cannot guarantee the security and confidentiality of electronic communications. 
    • Use of electronic communications to discuss sensitive information can increase the risk of such information being disclosed to third parties.
    • Despite reasonable efforts to protect the privacy and security of electronic communication, it is not possible to completely secure the information.
    • Employers and online services may have a legal right to inspect and keep electronic communications that pass through their system.
    • Electronic communications can introduce malware into a computer system and potentially damage or disrupt the computer, networks, and security settings.
    • Electronic communications can be forwarded, intercepted, circulated, stored, or even changed without the knowledge or permission of the GHC Team or the patient.
    • Even after the sender and recipient have deleted copies of electronic communication, back-up copies may exist on a computer system.
    • Electronic communications may be disclosed in accordance with a duty to report or a court order.
    • Videoconferencing using services may be more open to interception than other forms of videoconferencing.

Participants acknowledge and understand that despite recommendations that encryption software be used as a security mechanism for electronic communications, it is possible that communications with the GHC Team using the Services may not be encrypted. Despite this, I agree to communicate using video conferencing, email and/or text messages with a full understanding of the risk.